Thursday, November 5, 2009

Stairways Of Love

I found this very fascinating from Kikit's other site and found it really touching. I am re-posting it here in the hope that you will be inspired and touched by their GREAT love story:

Man Carves Wife a 6,000 Stair Path in Mountain

A weird love story has come out of China recently and managed to touch the world. It is a story of a man and an older woman who ran off to live and love each other in peace for over half century.


Over 50 years ago, Liu, was a 19 years-old boy, fell in love with a 29 year-old widowed mother named Xu. At the time, it was unacceptable and immoral for a young man to love an older woman.

To avoid the market gossips, the couple decided to elope and lived in a cave in Jiangjin County in Southern ChongQing area.

In the beginning, they had nothing, no electricity or even food. They had to eat grass and roots they found in the mountain, and Liu made a kerosene lamp that they used to lighten up their lives.

Starting the second year of living in the mountain, Liu began, and continue for over 50 years, to hand carve the steps so that his wife could get down the mountain easily.

A half century later in 2001, a group of adventures were exploring the forest, they surprisingly found the elderly couple and the over 6,000 stairs of hand carved ladder.

“My parents loved each other so much, they have lived in seclusion for over 50 years and never been apart a single day.” Liu MingSheng, one of their seven children said, “He hand carved more than 6,000 steps over the years for my mother’s convenience, although she doesn’t go down the mountain that much.”

The couple had lived in peace for over 50 years until last week. Liu, now 72 years-old, returned from his daily farm work and collapsed. Xu sat and prayed with her husband as he passed away in her arms.

So in love with Xu, was Liu, that no one was able to release the grip he had on his wife’s hand even after he had passed away.


“You promised me you’ll take care of me, you’ll always be with me until the day I died, now you left before me, how am I going to live without you?”

Xu spent days softly repeating this sentence and touching her husband’s black coffin with tears rolling down her cheeks.

In 2006, their story had became one of the top 10 love stories from China, collected by the Chinese Women Weekly. The local government has decided to preserve the “love ladder” and the place they lived as a museum, so this love story can live forever.

Reposted from www.weirdasianews.com.

Love indeed can conquer all. No matter how great the obstacle. No matter how difficult the task. It can move mountains. Heal the deepest wounds. And stand the test of time.


Wednesday, November 4, 2009

When Girls Rule!



Being a GIRL entails so many things: being a daughter, a sister, a mother, a girlfriend, a wife, and lots more. If you enjoy all the little pleasures, all the spices of life, all the drama that comes with it, all the latest in fashion and even gossip, then there's one site that you should check out: Girl's Rule!, a blog authored by no other than my online pal Niko or Aniknik as I fondly call her.

A fairly young blog, which has been live for only more than two months, it has come a long way and have gone from unknown to PR2 in that period of time! I wonder how Niko did it... I hope she will also reveal her blogging secrets!? If you want to know her blogging secrets, send her an email. She will gladly share her blogging success with you.



Of course, you all know that she is the host of the famous Girls Talk meme every Thursday. You will surely have lots of fun and even drool while browsing other girls' favorite stuff from this meme of her.

If you love Hollywood news, news that are directly or indirectly related to being a woman, you can also find it at her blog. There is one crazy news that I really can't believe, one that I really think is preposterous. A wedding photo worth $300,000? But I guess a wedding is every woman's dream and one that should be treasured, and the photos should be priceless indeed!

But what I love the most about this site is that it is never pretentious... Niko always writes about what's in her heart and for that, she RULES!



Save The Date!

I remember last year when my little Samantha was nearing her first birthday. I was in a frantic search for Save-The-Date cards to send to close friends and family members so that they can save the date and really come and celebrate her baptism and first birthday with us. After all, it only happens once in Samantha's lifetime and we only visit the Philippines once a year. It was difficult to find save the date cards in English since we were in Japan that time so I decided to make them myself.



Why save-the-date when I can just call them by phone or write them an email? Because they have a more personal feel and will give the impression that you value the presence of that person in that very special occasion. It also allows the guest ample time to prepare for the occasion and really mark it in their calendars.

And one can be creative in the way they present their save-the-date. Aside from the traditional cards, there are lots of other options like save the date magnets which invitees can stick on their refrigerator doors so that they will readily see it each time they get a drink, prepare dinner, or eat snacks and be constantly reminded by it. It may be small but it is a fun way to build that sense of anticipation for the actual invitation and the event itself.


It's Raining AWARDS!

It comes with the usual rules:
1. Pass it on to at least one other blog but the more the better.
2. Never ever tell anybody who gave it to you. (Link backs not allowed)
3. Make a nice acceptance speech.

My acceptance speech:
"I really do not think that my blog is a prestigious one but thanks for the honor. I gladly accept this award, thankful that someone has recognized the hardwork and love that I put into it. Should I cry now? Sniff! Sniff! Really, I am honored. Thank you! Thank you!"

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Sincerest Thank you's to Ate Chris of The Mommy Journey for showering me these awards! The cold, rainy days are here again and I miss the sunny weather. But this shower of awards surely made things look brighter and warmer.



"You can see this box of chocolates is filled with different and unique candies and just like the chocolates we are all different and unique people. We are the same in that we all have common ingredients that make us more alike than not. Except for the frosting, which represents our personalities, we are indeed very similar on the inside.”

And of course there are rules:
1. That you must pass this award to others.
2. Link back to me when you have passed them forward.
3. Write a nice post about this award.
4. You must read this award with a southern accent. I call it southern day where we all have to speak with a southern accent. I know that will be hard for some of you, but for the rest of us, we will be fine. So now, ya’ll just enjoy this little ol’ award and have fun with it.
5. And of course let your folks know that they have a nice award waiting for them.




For those receiving this award it is bestowed on to blogs that are exceedingly charming. These kind bloggers aim to find and be friends. They are not interested in self-aggrandizement. Our hope is that when the ribbons of these prizes are cut, even more friendships are propagated. Please give more attention to these writers. Deliver this award to six bloggers who must choose six more and include this cleverly-written text into the body of their award.

Now I would like to pass the Just Another Prestigious Internet Award, Honesty Award, Blogger Buddie Award, Box of Chocolates, and Circle of Friends Award to:

Kaye of WAHMaholic
Ate Beth of All About Elizabeth
Niko of Niko's Blog
Shydub of Worth's Road
Ate Rose of Rose's Obstacles and Glories
Mommy Seiko of Seiko's Diary

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